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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

Understanding BPD - The Lost Self and The Rock and a Hard Place - Impact of Core Wound Abandonment

Understanding BPD - The Lost Self  and The Rock and a Hard Place - Impact  of Core Wound Abandonment

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Understanding BPD - The Lost Self and Understanding BPD - The Rock and Hard Place in BPD are the first 2 ebooks of Mahari's follow up series of 3 ebooks to her Core Wound of Abandonment Series (see Core Wound of Abandonment Series Ebooks in the Ebook Bundles Category) - This series focuses on the lasting Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment and is a follow up series to the first series of 3 ebooks that explained, explored, and examined what Mahari has termed as "The Core Wound of Abanonment" is and involves in Borderline Personality Disorder.

Lost Self Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder The Lost Self Ebook
This ebook includes 141 pages that provide a deeper understanding of Borderline Personality Disorder. Included in this examination of the lost self in BPD is a look at what it means to have a lost self, the borderline quandry of the search for who one is, who is the borderline if he or she doesn't know who he or she really is? Mahari also explores the terror of need in BPD, the trappings of BPD, the lost self and self hate, the life not lived in and with the absence of the lost self and the borderline need to search for and find the lost self.



The Rock and a Hard Place in and Of Borderline Personality Disorder Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Rock and a Hard Place Ebook
ebook includes 133 pages examining and exploring 35 main aspects of issues found in those with BPD that constitute a rock and a hard place borderline reality that perpetuates the impact of the core wound of abandonment in ways that keep many stuck in the active throes of BPD and its pain and suffering.

In this ebook Mahari explores the answer to the question as to what is normal versus abnormal and what that looks for those with BPD and the reality that there is normal in what is the otherwise abnormal of BPD. Also examined is Borderline Ambivalence, Fear, Defensiveness, Emotional Dysregulation, Borderline Projection, The Masks of BPD, Grandiosity and Narcissism in BPD, the impact of Negative Psychological Associations and BPD, BPD and Devaluation, Self-Harm and Borderline Skewed Reality.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"The abandonment of your pain is a very prolific, yet, profoundly self-destructive way to exist. It is not living. It is merely existing in what is an ever-increasing, all-too-familiar self-annihilating suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Abandoned Pain of BPD"