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"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

"Listening to A.J.'s Audio Program, "Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" has really changed my entire way of thinking. I was married to a man with BPD and A.J.'s wise words in the audio were just what I needed to finally make the decision to take my life back."

-- Mary Redmond, U.S.A.

6 Ebook - 2 Audio Program Bundle For Non Borderlines

6 Ebook - 2 Audio Program Bundle For Non Borderlines

Price: $97.99

This purchase bundle of 6 ebooks and 2 audio programs is for those who are a family member, loved one, ex or relationship partner - non borderlines.



Included in this 6 ebook purchase package are the following ebooks:

A.J.'s 3 "Core wound of Abandonment" series of ebooks

You can read a brief summary of each ebook and audio program by scrolling down the page.

  • The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder
  • The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder
  • The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False Self in Borderline Personality Disorder
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The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook
The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder - A.J. Mahari gives a detailed history of how and why the abandoned pain of those with BPD keeps them stuck in the agonizing and seemingly mystifying suffering of BPD.

Mahari explores and examines the reality that the abandonment of one's own pain is the result of the distorted belief that it must be escaped at all costs. Those who go on to develop BPD had to initially abandon their pain in order to actually survive psychologically, albeit in fragmented pieces. However, in adulthood those with BPD must now welcome back in this abandoned and dissociated pain in order to integrate the fragments of self. It is these fragments of self and the loss of one's authentic self that leaves those with BPD without a known identity or stable sense of a known self. Being held at bay, dissociated from one's own authentic self by this abandoned borderline pain is what keeps those with BPD so stuck in untold profound suffering, isolation, learned helplessness, and alienated loneliness.

Mahari shows the borderline what this abandoned pain is trying to communicate and reveal and why. Borderline pain needs to be addressed in new and much more functional ways that enable the borderline to learn new coping skills.


The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook

This ebook presents a thorough examination and explanation of the core wound of abandonment in BPD exploring various aspects of what A.J. has termed the "core wound of abandonment" that she identified in her journey of recovery as the wound that is central to what BPD actually is and how and why it persists. Mahari examines what she calls "the core wound of abandonment" as one who has been there, as a woman who had BPD and has recovered. In this comprehensive ebook, A.J. outlines the definition, scope, and meaning of the core wound of abandonment. She describes it as the central wound that drives the emotional and relational devastation experienced by those with BPD, those who treat them, and those who care about and/or love them.

The anatomy of the core wound of abandonment is examined and explained. Along with her own experience of abandonment and her ruptured relationship with her own mother, Mahari has written an unbelievably detailed and insightful examination and explanation of the core wound of abandonment. A.J. Mahari offers her readers, in this ebook, a detailed look at how and why the core wound of abandonment is so destructive to those with BPD and everyone who gets anywhere near them relationally. Mahari writes that the destruction of the core wound of abandonment leads directly to the loss of self - a loss of authentic self that creates the false self organization of Borderline Personality Disorder. She also offers solutions and maps out the things that every borderline needs to learn if they want to recover, as A.J. has. Mahari shares the steps that she had to take, the pitfalls that block change and the awareness required to get on and stay on the road of and to recovery.


The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False Self That is Born Out of the Core Wound of Abandonment

False Self Core Wound of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook

The Shadows and Echoes of Self is a 127 pages providing an indepth and revealing examination of the false self personality organization of Borderline Personality Disorder that arises out of the core wound of abandonment. Included is a comprehensive look at the similarities and differences between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

From her experience as someone who has recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder, Mahari looks at the roots and origins of pathological narcissism through the Myth of Narcissus and its relation to the borderline lack of self that gives way the pathologically narcissistic false self in Borderline Personality Disorder.

With reference to Plato's Myth of the Cave and Jung's Shadow Self, Mahari defines and paints an accurate picture of the false self of BPD, its pathological narcissism, and its need for narcissistic defense mechanisms and the effect that this has internally for those with BPD and externally for those around them - non borderlines.

Mahari knows from personal experience that it is only by becoming aware of one's borderline false self and its pathological narcissism that those with BPD can then do the work of uncovering and finding the lost authentic self. The authentic self that was lost to the core wound of abandonment in early chlidhood. This is the road to recovery for those with BPD. It must first begin with a mindful and radically accepting awareness and understanding of the borderline false self and its bubble of narcissism.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). A.J. Mahari delves into the subject of cultural narcissism as a backdrop for the narcissism housed within BPD exploring the reality that narcissism is not just a stalwart of NPD. Mahari explores various archetypes and myths aimed at increasing the readers understanding of narcissism in a cultural context.


And A.J.'s 3 ebooks aimed specifically at Non Borderlines
  • The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Non Borderlines
  • Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines
  • The Dilemma On The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?
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The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance For Non Borderlines

Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook
This ebook consists of eight chapters that will enhance the journey of anyone who has (or has had) a borderline in his/her life. A.J. Mahari writes insightfully about how Non-Borderlines can free themselves from the chaotic painful drama of the borderline in their lives through the practice of Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance.

When a non-borderline is lost in the tumultuous world of a borderline it can cause untold pain and suffering. A.J. outlines 3 reasons why non-borderlines often remain hooked into the borderline's drama. Mahari also outlines the 3 main roadblocks to the practice of Radical Acceptance for Non-Borderlines as well as describing what keeps non-borderlines trapped in their own pain and suffering.

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines

Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines
A.J. Mahari was in the non-borderline role as a child with 2 parents with Borderline Personality Disorder. She shares the lessons that experience taught her. She then grew and developed and was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. Years later, at the age of 38 she recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder. Then six years after her recovery from BPD she found herself in a complicated and most unusual significant other relationship with an untreated borderline. Mahari has experienced it all and come out of it all on the other side, healthier, stronger, more insightful and much wiser for the lessons. This ebook is a must read for anyone in a relationship with someone with BPD.

The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD - Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?

The Dilemma on Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook
The Dilemma on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder, for the Non Borderline is a painful one. It is a dilemma driven by many questions. The source of those questions can be difficult for non borderlines to face. A.J. Mahari addresses what is at the heart of the non borderline dilemma, can borderlines love? Do borderlines feel love? Mahari not only answers these questions from the perspective of a recovered borderline but she also explains with incredible and unique insight of one who has been there why borderlines love the way that they do.



And Two Audio Programs for Non Borderlines:
  • The Breaking Free of The BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines
  • Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial about BPD and Love

Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

Break Free of Borderline Personality Maze Recovery For Nons Audio Program
This audio program is 1 hour and 25 minutes of Mahari's must hear insight and experience. In the audio program, "Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" A.J. Mahari speaks from the heart and from experience to those Non Borderlines who need to end their relationship with someone with BPD. She also speaks directly to those who may have ended a relationship but are still having trouble letting go and who may still be more focused on the borderline to the point that it is not good for their own mental health.


Tracks in This Audio Program includes:

Track 1: Why am I still stuck? Why does it still hurt so much?

Track 2: Mistakes Are Growth Opportunities. Are you ready to Learn Your Way Out of the BPD Maze?

Track 3: Trying to Make Sense Out of the Senseless

Track 4: Two Paths and Two Choices - Are you at this fork in the road on the other side of BPD?

Track 5: Recovery For Non Borderlines - What it is and why you need it.

Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial about BPD and Love

Overcoming Denial Borderline Personality And Love For Non Borderlines Audio Program
This audio program is 2 1/2 hours of Mahari's must hear insight and experience on and about the reality of love and BPD for non borderlines. In the audio program, "The Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About Borderline Personality Disorder and Love" A.J. Mahari shares revealing insightful information about Borderline Personality Disorder and Love - How to Break Out and Stay out of Denial. Non Borderlines in any type of relationship with someone with BPD will benefit from hearing A.J.'s insider knowledge about love and BPD.


Tracks in This Audio Program includes:

Track 1 - 10:38 How Does The Non Borderline End Up In So Much Pain and Denial?

Track 2 - 18:47 The Reality of Borderline False Self and Love - A.J. Shares Her Inside Experience

Track 3 - 32:58 BPD: What Does Love Have To Do With It?

Track 4 - 64:11 The Real Hostage Taker In The Arena of Love On The Other Side of BPD

Track 5 - 32:02 What is the Story that Fuels Your Denial and The Dilemma?



All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

6 Ebook - 2 Audio Program Bundle For Non Borderlines comes with the following items:

Audio Track

Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

EBook

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

Audio Track

Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love Audio Program

EBook

The Legacy Of Abandonment In Borderline Personality Disorder - The Core Wound of Abandonment

EBook

The Shadows and Echoes Of Self

EBook

The Other Side Of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Nons

EBook

The Dilemma on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

EBook

FULL CIRCLE - Lessons For Non Borderlines

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

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