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"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

Core Wound of Abandonment in BPD 3 Ebook Series and False Self To Authentic Self Audio Program

Core Wound of Abandonment in BPD 3 Ebook Series and False Self To Authentic Self Audio Program

Price: $75.99

This 3 ebook series includes the following ebooks, "The Abandoned Pain Of BPD", "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD" and "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False Self in BPD" along with the Audio Program - "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"




"The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder"

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook
"The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder - A.J. Mahari gives a detailed history of how and why the abandoned pain of those with BPD keeps them stuck in the agonizing and seemingly mystifying suffering of BPD.



"The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder"

The Legacy of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook
This ebook presents a thorough examination and explanation of the core wound of abandonment in BPD. It is the second ebook in a series of 5 (3 available now) exploring various aspects of what A.J. has termed the "core wound of abandonment" that she identified in her journey of recovery as the wound that is central to what BPD actually is and how and why it persists. Mahari examines what she calls "the core wound of abandonment" as one who has been there, as a woman who had BPD and has recovered.


"The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False Self in BPD"

False Self Core Wound of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder Ebook

Provides an indepth and revealing examination of the false self personality organization of Borderline Personality Disorder that arises out of the core wound of abandonment.
Included is a comprehensive look at the similarities and differences between Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).


"From False Self To Authentic Self in BPD - Getting In Touch With Your Inner Child" Audio Program © A.J. Mahari

From False Self to Authentic Self in Borderline Personality Audio Program
In the audio program A.J. Mahari explores the reality of the false self in Borderline Personality Disorder and the healing reality of the connection to one's inner child. Mahari describes why it is so important to get in touch with the inner child and its abandoned pain and how that is central to recovery.

Tracks in this audio program include:

Track 1: 52 Minutes An Introduction To The Inner Child along with Borderline Personality Disorder and The Reality of the Victim Mentality and its connection to the fragmented split-off dissociated from Inner Child

Track 2: 31 Minutes The Borderline Victim and The Need For Insight and Personal Responsibility - Versus The False Self

Track 3: 30 Mintues The Loss of The Inner Child (developing authentic self) to the Borderline False Self and its role In Protecting against what is needed for recovery

Track 4: 42 Minutes A.J. describes how, when, and why she met her inner child and what it meant to her recovery and how becoming aware of your inner child - your abandoned pain - can lead to ending self harm and is central to over-all recovery

Track 5: 75 Minutes Borderline Duality - There's "me" and then there is ME - The Reality of Duality - The domain of the false self and the lost authentic seed locked within the inner child

Track 6: 100 Minutes How You Can Get In Touch with Your Inner Child and Reclaim Your Inner Child - The connection to Recovery and A.J. reflects upon her own experience in getting in touch with her inner child

All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.


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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"