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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

The Legacy Of Abandonment In Borderline Personality Disorder - The Core Wound of Abandonment

Price: $15.99

This ebook presents a thorough examination and explanation of the core wound of abandonment in BPD. It is the second ebook in a series of 5 exploring various aspects of what A.J. has termed the "core wound of abandonment" that she identified in her journey of recovery as the wound that is central to what BPD actually is and how and why it persists.

This ebook, available now, includes 7 chapters of must read revelation about the intricate and complicated nature of the core wound of abandonment, that is the root-cause of the emotional and relational devastation of Borderline Personality Disorder.

In this comprehensive ebook, A.J. Mahari outlines the definition, scope, and meaning of the core wound of abandonment. She describes it as the central wound that drives the emotional and relational devastation experienced by those with BPD, those who treat them, and those who care about and/or love them.

The anatomy of the core wound of abandonment is examined and explained. Along with her own experience of abandonment and her ruptured relationship with her own mother, Mahari has written an unbelievably detailed and insightful examination and explanation of the core wound of abandonment. A.J. Mahari offers her readers, in this ebook, a detailed look at how and why the core wound of abandonment is so destructive to those with BPD and everyone who gets anywhere near them relationally. Mahari writes that the destruction of the core wound of abandonment leads directly to the loss of self - a loss of authentic self that creates the false self organization of Borderline Personality Disorder. She also offers solutions and maps out the things that every borderline needs to learn if they want to recover, as A.J. has. Mahari shares the steps that she had to take, the pitfalls that block change and the awareness required to get on and stay on the road of and to recovery.

Whether you have BPD or are in (have been in)a relationship (friend, family member, significant other, ex-partner) with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, as well as any professional treating someone with BPD will benefit from the insight A.J. Mahari shares from her own borderline experience, and her journey to her recovery from BPD.

Along with much more, A.J. outlines the following in this ebook:

17 Major ways that the issues that stem directly from the core wound of abandonment devastate the borderline's every attempt to relate and what it is that those with BPD do that is counter-productive and pathological in terms of the way they attempt to relate to self and to others
13 common occurrences in the triggered cycle of borderline dissociative, regression when triggered
35 ways to facilitate grounding when the borderline is triggered
30 Points of Awareness needed to integrate abandonment fear
5 key things at the heart of the integration of abandonment fear and abandonment pain
12 commitments needed for the borderline to begin opening up to and learning to tolerate his/her pain
20 Awareness Points needed to learn how to soothe yourself
20 Key ways to soothe yourself
10 Keys to Unwinding the Legacy of the Core Wound of Abandonment that make it possible for someone with
BPD to transform the devastation of pathological relating and learn how to relate more successfully
The 5 Roadblocks, among them Negative Core Beliefs
10 examples of negative core beliefs
10 main ways that negative core beliefs are relationally destructive unrealistic expectations
that generate chaotic manipulative relating by those with BPD and that hinder or block recovery
Toxic Shame
Guilt
What recovery entails
Along with 6 steps in authentic self reclamation

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All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

The Legacy Of Abandonment In Borderline Personality Disorder - The Core Wound of Abandonment is available in the following bundles:

Core Wound of Abandonment in BPD 3 Ebook Series and False Self To Authentic Self Audio Program

$43.00

Core Wound of Abandonment in BPD 3 Ebook Series

$33.00

6 Ebook Bundle for Non Borderlines

$70.00

6 Ebook - 2 Audio Program Bundle For Non Borderlines

$97.99

1-60 Minute Coaching Session with Core Wound of Abandonment in BPD 3 Ebook Bundle

$120.00

1-50 Minute Coaching Session with 6 Ebook Bundle For Non Borderlines

$132.99

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking From BPD Chaos Part 2

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BPD Recovery Introduction and Choice and BPD Recovery

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"The abandonment of your pain is a very prolific, yet, profoundly self-destructive way to exist. It is not living. It is merely existing in what is an ever-increasing, all-too-familiar self-annihilating suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Abandoned Pain of BPD"

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