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"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

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"Facing The Facts on The Other Side of BPD" - For Loved Ones And Family Members of Those with BPD" - Non Borderlines - 10 Central Facts To Set You Free
By: A.J. Mahari © December 2007

As only one who has been there can A.J. Mahari identifies and explains, from the inside out of Borderline Personality Disorder 10 Main Key Central Facts of Borderline Personality Disorder that Loved Ones and Family Members need to understand to free themselves from the painful hooks and emotional traps on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder.

In this audio program, A.J. Mahari, who has recovered from BPD and been in the non borderline, family member, loved one role with others with BPD, as only one who has been there can examines 10 Main Central Key Facts about Borderline Personality Disorder that every "non borderline" will benefit from better understanding so that they can free themselves emotionally from the painful hooks and traps that exist on the other side of Borderline Personality Disorder.

Tracks in this audio program include:
  • The Central and Foundational Fact of BPD that Nons First Need to Face
  • The Search and Quest For An Understanding That Will Set You Free - Fact 2
  • The Paradox of Being Re-Hooked - Fact 3
  • Inside The Reality of Borderline "I-hate-you-don't-leave-me" - Fact 4
  • Inside Borderline Relating - Fact 5
  • Recovery From BPD - The Controversy and What it Means For You - Fact 6
  • Insight Into the Perspective of the Borderline - Facts 7, 8, 9, & 10 - Fact 7 - The Borderline Conscience and Lack of Identity Fact 8 - Emotional Unavailability Fact 9 - What Borderlines Do In The Face of A Lack of Self/Identity Fact 10 - Compromised Awareness.
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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"