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"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

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Central to one of the main root causes of Borderline Personality Disorder is abandonment. Abandonment leads to profound pain. Pain that must then be abandoned. This abandonment, and its subsequent abandoned pain is the origin and the teacher of the distorted belief that pain must be escaped at all cost.

All human beings experience pain. Those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) experience a great deal of life much more sensitively than do most in the general population. The traits that define Borderline Personality Disorder are characteristics that are found in all people. The degree to which they are present in quantity and intensity is what denotes those who have BPD from those who don’t have it. People with BPD live in the extremes of everything that they feel and perceive.

If you have BPD, the abandonment of your pain is a very prolific, yet, profoundly self-destructive way to exist. It is not living. It is merely existing in what is an ever-increasing, all-too-familiar self-annihiliating suffering. Those with Borderline Personality Disorder, by the very nature of being personality disordered, have not learned how to feel their pain in healthy and manageable ways.

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder is the first ebook in a series of 3 ebooks by A.J. Mahari that address various aspects of what she has termed the “core wound of abandonment” in Borderline Personality Disorder. As someone who recovered from BPD 15 years ago and is now a Life Coach and BPD Coach A.J. Mahari understands from the inside out what is required and what it means to heal the unresolved abandonment of Borderline Personality Disorder.

This ebook, is 105 pages of insightful must read information about what perpetuates the suffering and self-defeating behaviour of those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). A.J. shares how that suffering can be firstly transformed into manageable pain and secondly recovered from.

This ebook will also be helpful to loved ones of someone with BPD who are seeking to better understand why the person in their lives with BPD has the issues and challenges that he or she does have and why they impact relating to your loved one in the painful ways that BPD does often negatively impact relationships.

Recovery from BPD is possible. It is so crucial for those with BPD to find and hold onto hope for that recovery. A recovery that is the journey From False Self To Authentic Self


All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"

"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"