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"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

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Central to one of the main root causes of Borderline Personality Disorder is abandonment. Abandonment leads to profound pain. Pain that must then be abandoned. This abandonment, and its subsequent abandoned pain is the origin and the teacher of the distorted belief that pain must be escaped at all cost.

All human beings experience pain. Those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) experience a great deal of life much more sensitively than do most in the general population. The traits that define Borderline Personality Disorder are characteristics that are found in all people. The degree to which they are present in quantity and intensity is what denotes those who have BPD from those who don’t have it. People with BPD live in the extremes of everything that they feel and perceive.

If you have BPD, the abandonment of your pain is a very prolific, yet, profoundly self-destructive way to exist. It is not living. It is merely existing in what is an ever-increasing, all-too-familiar self-annihiliating suffering. Those with Borderline Personality Disorder, by the very nature of being personality disordered, have not learned how to feel their pain in healthy and manageable ways.

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder is the first ebook in a series of 3 ebooks by A.J. Mahari that address various aspects of what she has termed the “core wound of abandonment” in Borderline Personality Disorder. As someone who recovered from BPD 15 years ago and is now a Life Coach and BPD Coach A.J. Mahari understands from the inside out what is required and what it means to heal the unresolved abandonment of Borderline Personality Disorder.

This ebook, is 105 pages of insightful must read information about what perpetuates the suffering and self-defeating behaviour of those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). A.J. shares how that suffering can be firstly transformed into manageable pain and secondly recovered from.

This ebook will also be helpful to loved ones of someone with BPD who are seeking to better understand why the person in their lives with BPD has the issues and challenges that he or she does have and why they impact relating to your loved one in the painful ways that BPD does often negatively impact relationships.

Recovery from BPD is possible. It is so crucial for those with BPD to find and hold onto hope for that recovery. A recovery that is the journey From False Self To Authentic Self


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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"

"Are you confused? Are you in pain? Do you find yourself overly-focused on the person with BPD? Are you trying to make sense out of the borderline's shifting moods or contradictory behaviour? I have been there. I know what it takes to break free on the other side of BPD. Breaking free from the BPD maze means getting back in touch and in tune with yourself."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Breaking Free From The BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines"

"There are 10 Key Facts at the heart of Borderline Personality Disorder that every non borderline needs to understand. To begin facing the facts of BPD and what it means to the non borderline, you have to first know what the facts really are. Not just the traits that define BPD but the facts of what the experience is and why it is so painful for family members, loved ones, and relationship partners."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Facing 10 Key Facts About BPD - For Non Borderlines"