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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder

Price: $20.99

Central to one of the main root causes of Borderline Personality Disorder is abandonment. Abandonment leads to profound pain. Pain that must then be abandoned. This abandonment, and its subsequent abandoned pain is the origin and the teacher of the distorted belief that pain must be escaped at all cost.

All human beings experience pain. Those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) experience a great deal of life much more sensitively than do most in the general population. The traits that define Borderline Personality Disorder are characteristics that are found in all people. The degree to which they are present in quantity and intensity is what denotes those who have BPD from those who don’t have it. People with BPD live in the extremes of everything that they feel and perceive.

If you have BPD, the abandonment of your pain is a very prolific, yet, profoundly self-destructive way to exist. It is not living. It is merely existing in what is an ever-increasing, all-too-familiar self-annihiliating suffering. Those with Borderline Personality Disorder, by the very nature of being personality disordered, have not learned how to feel their pain in healthy and manageable ways.

The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder is the first ebook in a series of 3 ebooks by A.J. Mahari that address various aspects of what she has termed the “core wound of abandonment” in Borderline Personality Disorder. As someone who recovered from BPD 15 years ago and is now a Life Coach and BPD Coach A.J. Mahari understands from the inside out what is required and what it means to heal the unresolved abandonment of Borderline Personality Disorder.

This ebook, is 105 pages of insightful must read information about what perpetuates the suffering and self-defeating behaviour of those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). A.J. shares how that suffering can be firstly transformed into manageable pain and secondly recovered from.

This ebook will also be helpful to loved ones of someone with BPD who are seeking to better understand why the person in their lives with BPD has the issues and challenges that he or she does have and why they impact relating to your loved one in the painful ways that BPD does often negatively impact relationships.

Recovery from BPD is possible. It is so crucial for those with BPD to find and hold onto hope for that recovery. A recovery that is the journey From False Self To Authentic Self


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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"

"Are you confused? Are you in pain? Do you find yourself overly-focused on the person with BPD? Are you trying to make sense out of the borderline's shifting moods or contradictory behaviour? I have been there. I know what it takes to break free on the other side of BPD. Breaking free from the BPD maze means getting back in touch and in tune with yourself."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Breaking Free From The BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"