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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks - A 5 Volume Set

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks - A 5 Volume Set

Price: $45.99

Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari's 5 Volume set of Thought Changing Positive Affirmation Handbooks that are designed to give you an affirmation per day or week, as you choose, to make into a mantra to help you change various negative thoughts into positive ones. Affirmations are the foundation of fundamental thought change that can and will change the way you experience your life for the better.

You can use these "Positive Affirmations" - short positive statements targeted at a specific subconscious set of beliefs - to challenge and undermine negative beliefs and to replace them with positive self-nurturing beliefs. How we think creates our experience. If you are thinking largely negatively you will create and perceive your life experience through a negative lens. If you are thinking more positively the exact opposite will manifest in your life - your thoughts, experience, relationships, and your over-all life experience.

Affirmations actually reprogram your thought patterns. They change the way you think and feel about things, and because you have replaced dysfunctional negative beliefs with your own new positive beliefs that will bring positive change  naturally as you practice replacing old negative thoughts with new positive ones. This will start to reflect in your external life. You will start to experience seismic changes for the better in many aspects of your life.

Positive affirmations, using them and practicing them, will create permanent change in how you think and therefore in your the way that you experience your life.

Volume One - 108 pages of Thought Changing Affirmations on the following:

  • Anxiety Calm Expectations
  • Happiness Money Peace
  • Pressure Procrastination
  • Relaxation Transformation

Volume Two - 109 pages of Thought Changing Affirmations on the following:

  • Attitude Positive Thinking
  • Confidence Motivation
  • Negative Thinking Success

Volume Three - 109 pages of Thought Changing Affirmations on the following:

  • Change Direction
  • Goals Momentum
  • Passion Perfectionism

Volume Four - 111 pages of Thought Changing Affirmations on the following:

  • Communication Conflict Family
  • Helping Others Relationships
  • Self-Reflection Work-Life Balance


Volume Five - 109 pages of Thought Changing Affirmations on the following:

  • Exercise Food Health
  • Prioritization Productivity
  • Stress Time Management

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"We have two worlds and one bridge. That bridge where we can journey toward connection is understanding. Let us all walk this bridge that spans our differences toward its centre with tolerance and an attitude of gratitude for these sacred differences that challenge us to shelter and nurture our humanity with care."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Asperger's Syndrome and Adulthood"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"