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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

Coaching Session for Adult Child of BPD or NPD Parent(s)

Price: $80.00

Adult Child of BPD or NPD Personality-Disordered Parent(s) 1 - 60 minute phone coaching session with BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

A.J. Mahari, who recovered from BPD in 1995 offers this very affordable rate to those who are, like herself, an adult child of a parent with BPD or a parent with NPD or a parent or parents with co-morbid BPD/NPD.

If you would like to be supported, validated, and assisted on your journey in what is your experience of life as an adult child of a personality-disordered parent or parents, A.J. would be happy to talk to you about where you are in that journey. You really do need to empower your own recovery and take care of yourself. You can learn new tools and techniques to help you learn to cope more effectively with all of the issues that result from being an an adult child of a personality-disordered parent or parents. A.J. has helped many an adult child of BPD or NPD or both to recovery and freedom from a toxic dysfunctional family system of relating that spills over into the rest of one's life often. A.J. knows first-hand what it is like to be an adult child of personality-disordered her parents. Her mother has BPD. Her father, (who has since passed away) had BPD/NPD. She also had a relationship, after she recovered from BPD, with a person who had BPD/NPD.

You can unlearn what you need to and learn new tools and skills. You can learn to put yourself first, conquer toxic guilt, shame, and end toxic relational patterns. You can empower yourself by choosing recovery and by giving the responsibility for their personality disorder back to your mother and/or father. It is not your responsibility. You can't rescue them.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"