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Testimonials


"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

Coaching Session for Adult Child of BPD or NPD Parent(s)

Coaching Session for Adult Child of BPD or NPD Parent(s)

Price: $80.00

Adult Child of BPD or NPD Personality-Disordered Parent(s) 1 - 60 minute phone coaching session with BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

A.J. Mahari, who recovered from BPD in 1995 offers this very affordable rate to those who are, like herself, an adult child of a parent with BPD or a parent with NPD or a parent or parents with co-morbid BPD/NPD.

If you would like to be supported, validated, and assisted on your journey in what is your experience of life as an adult child of a personality-disordered parent or parents, A.J. would be happy to talk to you about where you are in that journey. You really do need to empower your own recovery and take care of yourself. You can learn new tools and techniques to help you learn to cope more effectively with all of the issues that result from being an an adult child of a personality-disordered parent or parents. A.J. has helped many an adult child of BPD or NPD or both to recovery and freedom from a toxic dysfunctional family system of relating that spills over into the rest of one's life often. A.J. knows first-hand what it is like to be an adult child of personality-disordered her parents. Her mother has BPD. Her father, (who has since passed away) had BPD/NPD. She also had a relationship, after she recovered from BPD, with a person who had BPD/NPD.

You can unlearn what you need to and learn new tools and skills. You can learn to put  yourself first, conquer toxic guilt, shame, and end toxic relational patterns. You can empower yourself by choosing recovery and by giving the responsibility for their personality disorder back to your mother and/or father. It is not your responsibility. You can't rescue them.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"

"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"