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Testimonials


"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"Listening to A.J.'s Audio Program, "Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" has really changed my entire way of thinking. I was married to a man with BPD and A.J.'s wise words in the audio were just what I needed to finally make the decision to take my life back."

-- Mary Redmond, U.S.A.

Adult Child of BPD or NPD - 1 - 60 Minute Phone Life Coaching Session

Adult Child of BPD or NPD - 1 - 60 Minute Phone Life Coaching Session

Price: $80.00

1 - 60 minute phone coaching session with BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

A.J. Mahari, who recovered from BPD in 1995 offers this very affordable rate to those who are, like herself, an adult child of a parent with BPD or a parent with NPD or a parent or parents with co-morbid BPD/NPD.

If you would like to be supported, validated, and assisted on your journey in what is your experience of life as an adult child of a personality-disordered parent or parents, A.J. would be happy to talk to you about where you are in that journey. You really do need to empower your own recovery and take care of yourself. You can learn new tools and techniques to help you learn to cope more effectively with all of the issues that result from being an an adult child of a personality-disordered parent or parents. A.J. has helped many an adult child of BPD or NPD or both to recovery and freedom from a toxic dysfunctional family system of relating that spills over into the rest of one's life often. A.J. knows first-hand what it is like to be an adult child of personality-disordered her parents. Her mother has BPD. Her father, (who has since passed away) had BPD/NPD. She also had a relationship, after she recovered from BPD, with a person who had BPD/NPD.

You can unlearn what you need to and learn new tools and skills. You can learn to put  yourself first, conquer toxic guilt, shame, and end toxic relational patterns. You can empower yourself by choosing recovery and by giving the responsibility for their personality disorder back to your mother and/or father. It is not your responsibility. You can't rescue them.


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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The central source of negativity in BPD is what I call the core wound of abandonment. It is the abandonment wound that is the foundation of the black-and-white all-or-nothing thinking that perpetuates the borderline one-sided and pervasive negative experience in life. This negativity in those with BPD blocks them from the experience of hope. Hope is a central ingredient necessary for getting on the road to recovery."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Finding Hope From The Polarized Negativity of BPD"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"