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Testimonials


"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"Listening to A.J.'s Audio Program, "Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" has really changed my entire way of thinking. I was married to a man with BPD and A.J.'s wise words in the audio were just what I needed to finally make the decision to take my life back."

-- Mary Redmond, U.S.A.

Recovery From a Relationship - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Recovery From a Relationship  - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Price: $800.00

This 10 session coaching package with A.J. Mahari, for anyone who is still learning to cope with and recover from a relationship break-up, or anyone who knows that a relationship needs to be ended and is processing and developing an emotional preparedness for leaving a relationship will help you to get  to know yourself better. It will also help you to understand in more aware ways what you have just experienced and what that means going forward in your life.

Relationship recovery coaching with A.J. Mahari will help you to better understand the dynamics of that unfolded in your relationship and at the same time help you to gain increased awareness about the ways that you were investing in relational patterns that were painful and that threaten your sense of self and emotional well-being. A.J. can also help you to identify goals that will provide you with a sense of purpose that will help you embrace your loss and the grief and open you up to what you will benefit from learning more about.

In relationship recovery, coping with the loss and the grief, and learning what you most need to know is key. This is a time to concentrate on yourself and in positive affirming ways that nurture your growth. It is important not to allow your inner-critic to take over and cause you more pain or keep  you stuck in feelings of abandonment, shame, and/or unworthiness. A.J. can help you to let go of the "if-only's" and the "what-if's".

Also at issue and explored with many who purchase this coaching package is the self-defeating choices made in getting involved in a relationship or series of relationships that have a common thread/theme/pattern that have continued to bring painful chaos, stress, and anxiety into your life. Learn why you may be looking for love in all the wrong places.

This coaching package will help you:

  • Learn to observe your inner-critic
  • Gain more awareness about relationship choices - what keeps blocked from the healthy love you really want
  • Clarify your own needs
  • Clarify your expectations
  • Clarify your relationship needs
  • Cope effectively with the loss and grief of a relationship break-up
  • Learn new emotion management skills
  • Define or re-define your boundaries
  • Replace ineffective and/or painful ways of relating with healthier more effective here-and-now ways of relating
  • Learn to implement strategy that supports personal growth and wellness

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"

"Are you confused? Are you in pain? Do you find yourself overly-focused on the person with BPD? Are you trying to make sense out of the borderline's shifting moods or contradictory behaviour? I have been there. I know what it takes to break free on the other side of BPD. Breaking free from the BPD maze means getting back in touch and in tune with yourself."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Breaking Free From The BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"