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"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

Recovery From a Relationship - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Recovery From a Relationship  - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Price: $650.00

When you purchase this coaching package you will save $150. If you were to purchase 10 individual sessions the cost would be $800.00

This 10 session coaching packaage with A.J. Mahari, for anyone who is still learning to cope with and recover from a relationship break-up, or anyone who knows that a relationship needs to be ended and is processing and developing an emotional preparedness for leaving a relationship will help you to get  to know yourself better. It will also help you to understand in more aware ways what you have just experienced and what that means going forward in your life.

Relationship recovery coaching with A.J. Mahari will help you to better understand the dynamics of that unfolded in your relationship and at the same time help you to gain increased awareness about the ways that you were investing in relational patterns that were painful and that threaten your sense of self and emotional well-being. A.J. can also help you to identify goals that will provide you with a sense of purpose that will help you embrace your loss and the grief and open you up to what you will benefit from learning more about.

In relationship recovery, coping with the loss and the grief, and learning what you most need to know is key. This is a time to concentrate on yourself and in positive affirming ways that nurture your growth. It is important not to allow your inner-critic to take over and cause you more pain or keep  you stuck in feelings of abandonment, shame, and/or unworthiness. A.J. can help you to let go of the "if-only's" and the "what-if's".

Also at issue and explored with many who purchase this coaching package is the self-defeating choices made in getting involved in a relationship or series of relationships that have a common thread/theme/pattern that have continued to bring painful chaos, stress, and anxiety into your life. Learn why you may be looking for love in all the wrong places.

This coaching package will help you:

  • Learn to observe your inner-critic
  • Gain more awareness about relationship choices - what keeps blocked from the healthy love you really want
  • Clarify your own needs
  • Clarify your expectations
  • Clarify your relationship needs
  • Cope effectively with the loss and grief of a relationship break-up
  • Learn new emotion management skills
  • Define or re-define your boundaries
  • Replace ineffective and/or painful ways of relating with healthier more effective here-and-now ways of relating
  • Learn to implement strategy that supports personal growth and wellness

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"We have two worlds and one bridge. That bridge where we can journey toward connection is understanding. Let us all walk this bridge that spans our differences toward its centre with tolerance and an attitude of gratitude for these sacred differences that challenge us to shelter and nurture our humanity with care."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Asperger's Syndrome and Adulthood"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?