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"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

"Listening to A.J.'s Audio Program, "Breaking Free From the BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines" has really changed my entire way of thinking. I was married to a man with BPD and A.J.'s wise words in the audio were just what I needed to finally make the decision to take my life back."

-- Mary Redmond, U.S.A.

Recovery From a Relationship - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Recovery From a Relationship  - Effective Coping When a Relationship Ends

Price: $650.00

When you purchase this coaching package you will save $150. If you were to purchase 10 individual sessions the cost would be $800.00

This 10 session coaching packaage with A.J. Mahari, for anyone who is still learning to cope with and recover from a relationship break-up, or anyone who knows that a relationship needs to be ended and is processing and developing an emotional preparedness for leaving a relationship will help you to get  to know yourself better. It will also help you to understand in more aware ways what you have just experienced and what that means going forward in your life.

Relationship recovery coaching with A.J. Mahari will help you to better understand the dynamics of that unfolded in your relationship and at the same time help you to gain increased awareness about the ways that you were investing in relational patterns that were painful and that threaten your sense of self and emotional well-being. A.J. can also help you to identify goals that will provide you with a sense of purpose that will help you embrace your loss and the grief and open you up to what you will benefit from learning more about.

In relationship recovery, coping with the loss and the grief, and learning what you most need to know is key. This is a time to concentrate on yourself and in positive affirming ways that nurture your growth. It is important not to allow your inner-critic to take over and cause you more pain or keep  you stuck in feelings of abandonment, shame, and/or unworthiness. A.J. can help you to let go of the "if-only's" and the "what-if's".

Also at issue and explored with many who purchase this coaching package is the self-defeating choices made in getting involved in a relationship or series of relationships that have a common thread/theme/pattern that have continued to bring painful chaos, stress, and anxiety into your life. Learn why you may be looking for love in all the wrong places.

This coaching package will help you:

  • Learn to observe your inner-critic
  • Gain more awareness about relationship choices - what keeps blocked from the healthy love you really want
  • Clarify your own needs
  • Clarify your expectations
  • Clarify your relationship needs
  • Cope effectively with the loss and grief of a relationship break-up
  • Learn new emotion management skills
  • Define or re-define your boundaries
  • Replace ineffective and/or painful ways of relating with healthier more effective here-and-now ways of relating
  • Learn to implement strategy that supports personal growth and wellness

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"There are 10 Key Facts at the heart of Borderline Personality Disorder that every non borderline needs to understand. To begin facing the facts of BPD and what it means to the non borderline, you have to first know what the facts really are. Not just the traits that define BPD but the facts of what the experience is and why it is so painful for family members, loved ones, and relationship partners."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Facing 10 Key Facts About BPD - For Non Borderlines"

"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"