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"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

The Shame of Abandonment in BPD

The Shame of Abandonment in BPD

Price: $22.99

Sources of abandonment and how they produce shame are examined along with the impact of shame on relationships.

By: A.J. Mahari © June 2008
Published by PhoenixRising Publications

In the audio program, "The Shame of Abandonment in BPD" Mahari explores the reality of the impact and scope of shame that is experienced in and through abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder.

In Part 1 of this audio program focuses on the sources of abandonment and how they produce shame, The experience and consequences of shame in BPD for borderlines and non borderlines, and The effects of the shame of abandonment for those with BPD and the effects for those who are non borderline.

In Part 2 of this audio program A.J. Mahari focuses on The Shame of Abandonment and its specific and devastating impact on relationships and the purpose that toxic relationships can and do actually promise for both those with BPD and those who are Non Borderline if you are willing to search inside of yourself.

Tracks in part 1 of this audio program include:
Track 1:
48 Minutes - The sources of abandonment and how they produce shame

Track 2:
42 Minutes - The experience and consequences of shame

Track 3:
34 Mintues - The effects of the shame of abandonment

Tracks in part 2 of this audio program include:

Track 1:
88 Minutes
- The effects of the shame of abandonment on relationships

Track 2:
58 Minutes - Codependency and enmeshment - Where Borderlines and Non Borderlines Meet

Track 3:
34 Minutes - What Borderlines & Nons need to know and understand about toxic relationship involvement

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?