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Testimonials


"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

Abandonment Resolution

Abandonment Resolution

Price: $80.00

1 - 60 minute coaching session with A.J. Mahari to discearn the ways that unresolved abandonment is keeping you stuck and is a major obstacle to growth and change and you achieving your goals in your relationships, career, and life generally.

Many people who feel blocked, stuck, and unable to identify and/or achieve their goals and dreams in life have unresolved abandonment issues that profoundly impact their emotional experience in life and that intensify difficulty with loss and/or change.

Do you have difficulty with change? Do you have difficulty moving on after a relationship ends, a friendship changes or ends? Do you continue to think about a job that you used to have and feel stuck there emotionally? Are you experiencing a high-conflict or toxic relationship with a parent (or parents) and find that despite what you need you continue to put aside your own well-being to try to please or meet the demands of your parents? Do you find yourself trying to meet the needs or demands of others just because you "hate" loss and don't want to have to deal with it?

Underlying a lot of emotional blocks in life is unresolved abandonment. A.J. Mahari can help you to understand more about what this means for you in your life and explore with you what you will benefit from learning about yourself and how you can learn to let go, to grieve, and to move forward to identify, embrace, and achieve your goals and dreams in your life.

A.J. will help you learn to identify:

  • What is blocking you
  • What you are focusing on that isn`t helping you move forward
  • The lessons that loss and grief have to teach you
  • Effective ways of coping with your emotions
  • How to nurture and take care of yourself
  • Identify and achieve your goals and dreams
  • Help you to recognize how your here-and-now might be being shaped by your past and how you can change that

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Are you confused? Are you in pain? Do you find yourself overly-focused on the person with BPD? Are you trying to make sense out of the borderline's shifting moods or contradictory behaviour? I have been there. I know what it takes to break free on the other side of BPD. Breaking free from the BPD maze means getting back in touch and in tune with yourself."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Breaking Free From The BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"