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"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

LONELINESS - Its Challenges, Lessons, Purpose and Meaning

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LONELINESS
Its Challenges, Lessons, Purpose and Meaning and its Promise of Life Transformation

© A.J. Mahari October 26, 2006

A.J. Mahari, writes, "At the core of every human heart there is the paradox of the need and longing for connection and the reality of loneliness inter-mixed with the desire for the joy and peace of the solitude of aloneness."

This ebook includes a section on abandonment and the core wound of abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder (how it effects the non-borderline in relation to the borderline), and its impact and effect upon the loneliness experienced by those who were sexually abused.

This ebook is an examination of loneliness - including types of loneliness, causes of loneliness, Holidays and Loneliness, the lessons of loneliness, what to do about the pain of loneliness, how to cope with it. Along with the challenges of loneliness, what they are and why they are, the lessons of loneliness - what does loneliness really mean in our lives? Also explored and examined is the purpose and meaning of loneliness and the promise it offers of life transformation.

This ebook, available now, is 238 pages - 13 chapters all about Loneliness and the life affirming and transforming opportunities it presents us with through the pain and struggles we encounter with it.

PART ONE: THE CHALLENGE OF LONELINESS

Chapter 1: What is Loneliness? -- A definition of Loneliness. An examination of the continuum of Loneliness. What Loneliness isn’t. The 10 Main Ingredients Necessary To Exercise Choice & the The 10 Primary Root Causes Of Loneliness

Chapter 2: Types, Symptoms and Effects of Loneliness --The 3 Main Categories of Loneliness are examined along with 10 central Symptoms of Loneliness and the 7 Major Effects of Loneliness. The value of the challenges of Loneliness. Loneliness is such a teacher of important lessons, if you'll let it be.

Chapter 3: Holidays and Loneliness -- Holidays present difficult and lonely times for many. Why do holidays
seem to make feelings of loneliness worse? What can we do to cope with loneliness during holiday seasons?

PART TWO: ABANDONMENT WOUNDS -- in life generally, and in Borderline Personality Disorder, (BPD) effecting non-borderlines too, and Sexual Abuse.

Chapter 4: Unresolved Abandonment and Chronic Loneliness -- Even for those without formal mental illness or who were not abused in childhood can have abandonment wounds that fuel chronic loneliness.

Chapter 5: Abandonment Wounds and Loneliness in Borderline Personality Disorder -- Abandonment wounds and consistent abandonment fears of those diagnosed with BPD create and perpetuate chronic and intolerable loneliness. Plus the loneliness of the non-BP (ex) partner is explored. You do not have to have a personality disorder or mental illness to have unresolved abandonment issues that are a central part of your loneliness.

Chapter 6: Abandonment Wounds in Loneliness from Sexual Abuse -- For those who have been sexually abused the result is abandonment wounds similar to those in BPD that enliven many of the root causes of loneliness defined in my continuum of loneliness. This continuum of loneliness applies to all of us, not just to people who have been sexually abused.

PART THREE: THE PURPOSE AND MEANING OF LONELINESS

Chapter 7: The Necessity of Loneliness -- Loneliness is necessary because it is the pathway to the soul and the authentic self of each one of us. An examination of how and why Loneliness and its pain are necessary teachers. What is the point of the pain? An examination of the hope of the pain of Loneliness. Loneliness can be a transformative teacher.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"Are you confused? Are you in pain? Do you find yourself overly-focused on the person with BPD? Are you trying to make sense out of the borderline's shifting moods or contradictory behaviour? I have been there. I know what it takes to break free on the other side of BPD. Breaking free from the BPD maze means getting back in touch and in tune with yourself."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Breaking Free From The BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?