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"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Price: $18.99

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines

By: A.J. Mahari © 2008
Published by PhoenixRising Publications

In the audio program, "Inside the Borderline Mind" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there can and made it back can, shares her insight and experience as someone who had BPD and recovered to further the understanding of BPD for those who are on the other side of BPD - non borderlines.

Tracks in Part One of this audio program include:

Introduction: 13 Minutes

A.J. Mahari talks about this audio series that will consist of 5 parts and where she is coming from with her unique insider information and understanding of BPD. Mahari also introduces the goals and aims of this audio series and what part one entails. (Please check back here soon for up-coming parts of this series and what A.J. will be explaining and sharing insight about specifically.

Track 1: 94 Minutes

  • What is the Borderline Mind?
  • How do those with BPD really think?
  • How is it different from the Non Borderline Mind?
  • What does this difference mean specifically to relating?
  • How I experienced living from within the borderline mind and what that meant for the non borderlines around me when I had BPD

Track 2: 81 Minutes

  • The Effect of The Borderline Mind on Borderline Behaviour
  • The Parallel Experience of the Borderline and the Non in Relationships and the reality of the relational devastation of BPD


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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"