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"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

Loved Ones Finding Closure - 4 - 60 Minute Sessions

Loved Ones Finding Closure - 4 - 60 Minute Sessions

Price: $320.00

Loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, at one point or another, do need to find closure. Closure isn't limited exclusively to the ending of a relationship with the person with BPD in your life even though this is what it is most commonly thought to mean.

Closure might mean finding your way to more effective coping with identified and up-held boundaries so that you gain needed closure from the roller-coaster emotional chaos and turmoil of a BPD loved one even in continuing to relate to that person.

Many of the loved ones of BPD that come to me as a Life/BPD Coach have read an enormous amount of material about Borderline Personality Disorder. And, while they have gained a lot of knowledge about many aspects of BPD they continue to struggle with what have become dysfunctional and painful patterns of thinking about and relating to the person in their lives with BPD. My clients have expressed to me that the support and compassion along with the understanding that I can share about all aspects of BPD really makes the difference for them in their on-going processes of coming to the kind of deep emotional understanding required to create and maintain healthy change for themselves.

Working with A.J. Mahari, as your BPD/Life Coach on the subject of closure, again, whether you are remaining in the relationship with the loved one in your life with BPD or not can and will empower you to end the pain and suffering that loved ones experience on the other side of someone with BPD.

Please Note: Any purchased life coaching sessions are non-refundable.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"

"The inner child in those with BPD, due to the pain that borderlines have abandoned, may well feel overly controlled, abandoned, silenced, and neglected. The borderline's inner child is in tremendous pain and it is also the gateway to the lost self of the borderline."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD - Getting in Touch With the Inner Child"