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"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"If you want to know more about Borderline Personality Disorder, as a borderline, or non borderline, I totally recommend that you buy A.J. Mahari's 3 Core Wound of Abandonment Ebooks. I have searched all over the web, read everything I could, including lots of other books and nothing was even close to as helpful to me as A.J.'s insightful explanation of abandonment in BPD. Finally, I understand.Thank you A.J. for the incredible gift of the insight you share that you learned through your own life experience."

-- Katy Gilchrist, Alberta, Canada

Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

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Each and every adult child of a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder sooner or later comes to the realization that there is a need for and has been an on-going search for closure. Whether you, yourself, also have Borderline Personality Disorder or not, the impact of having been raised by a mother with BPD leaves a legacy in the life of each and every adult child of a borderline mother.

Whether your mother is still alive or long-since passed away, the legacy of the Borderline mother in the life of the adult child can continue to have significant impact upon you and your relationships. This on-going impact is often not something the adult child of the Borderline mother is consciously aware of. This on-going impact needs to be purposefully and consciously addressed if you are to find closure and win your emotional freedom.

In this audio program, Author, Mental Health and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari, talks about the need and the search for closure that is at the heart of a longing in the life of each and every adult child who has a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari, herself, has found and realized, achieved in her life, this closure from the impacting legacy of profound loss she experienced in her own life as the result of having a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks to adult children who themselves have not been diagnosed with BPD and to those who, like she was, have also been diagnosed with BPD. Mahari recovered from BPD 14 years ago and has first-hand inside knowledge of the borderline mind and what happens emotionally in BPD.

Mahari knows from her own experience that unless and until anyone with Borderline Personality Disorder seeks treatment and takes personal responsibility for that treatment, the reality of Borderline Personality disordered relating and its legacy will live on impacting his or her life and our lives as loved ones of the person with BPD - as the adult child of a borderline mother. It will live on in ways that continue to hold you back and cause you pain until you actively seek to create healthy change in your life that can and will bring you to choose to find, realize, and achieve the closure that can and will set you free from what is a most painfully profound and primal legacy of loss.

A.J. Mahari is a Mental Health and Life Coach who coaches many adult children of borderline mothers in this process and journey of finding closure and moving forward in their lives. Lives that can be lived in and through a healthier and more balanced peaceful emotional and spiritual experience.

A.J. Mahari, in describing this audio program outlines that: "There isn't really a recovery road map to chart that would fit exactly for every adult child of a borderline mother. This audio program, however, offers you in depth and valuable insight into the journey that I have taken and the transformative and freeing closure I have chosen, found, processed, and actualized in my own life. I do share what can be termed how-to information that you can adapt to the journey that is your own search for closure."

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari

"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"