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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

BPD and Triggers - Gateways To Recovery

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In this audio, Author, BPD and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari gives the listener an in depth understanding of Borderline Personality Disorder and the emotional triggers that are so central to having Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari shares some her experience in how understanding triggers when she had BPD was a pivotal part of her recovery from BPD many years ago.

When those with BPD are triggered they experience a sudden increase in distress due to dysregulated emotion. Whether or not the person with BPD is in touch with, or aware of, his or her actual feelings, he or she will experience a sharp increase in emotional distress and discomfort. How that distress and discomfort manifests itself can vary for each person diagnosed with BPD. Central to this experience, however, is the desire and feeling of desperate need to get away from this distress and discomfort by whatever means necessary or whatever actions will provide an escape from the triggered dysregulated emotions.

Mahari provides insight into why this escape is destructive beyond the reality that many with BPD seek out self destructive maladaptive ways of coping when they are triggered. Trying to escape the reality of your triggers will only keep you firmly trapped in Borderline Personality Disorder. The more you succeed at escaping the pain of triggered Emotional Dysregulation the more you ensure re-experiencing the same triggers over and over again.

Mahari explains how and why this is and what you can do about it. She explains why it is so important to be willing to learn new ways of coping. She also talks about how you can cope effectively with the dysregulated emotion caused by being triggered and all of its accompanying anxiety, panic, stress, discomfort, and distress.

Learning to be open to your triggers and the distress of intensely heightened emotion combined with learning healthier and more effective ways of coping is the gateway to recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. It is the journey from false self to authentic self in BPD Mahari explains just how you can learn to set yourself free from the seemingly endless cycles of borderline triggered emotional dysregulation and all of its suffering.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"There are 10 Key Facts at the heart of Borderline Personality Disorder that every non borderline needs to understand. To begin facing the facts of BPD and what it means to the non borderline, you have to first know what the facts really are. Not just the traits that define BPD but the facts of what the experience is and why it is so painful for family members, loved ones, and relationship partners."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Facing 10 Key Facts About BPD - For Non Borderlines"

"At the heart of much of what results in relating to someone with BPD is conflict. Are you experiencing an high and/or destructive level of conflict? What is driving that conflict? Is that conflict blocking intimacy and closeness? How do you react to this conflict? Is your own behaviour deteriorating in response to the conflict generated by the borderline in your life? What is it about all of this conflict that you are investing in and why?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Other Side of BPD"

"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"