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"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

1 - 60 Minute Coaching Session - Codependence

1 - 60 Minute Coaching Session - Codependence

Price: $80.00

1 - 60 minute Phone Life Coaching Session with A.J. Mahari to explore the options that you have in dealing with issues or concerns you have about either your own codependency or the codependence of someone close to you in your life. Codependence is often at the heart of many dysfunctional and painful relationships and ways of relating.

Are you at a cross-roads? Do you know that something in your life isn't working the way you need it to or had hoped it would and you know you need to examine this? Do you have relational difficulties? Do you feel overwhelmed? Do you feel lost? Do you need someone to talk to who will really listen to and focus on you?

Dysfunctional relationships, whether unfulfilling, or outrightly toxic, have at their center codependence, enmeshment, poor boundaries or  a lack of boundaries, healthy or otherwise that intensify and de-stablize relationships. Codepenent ways of relating demand too much. They are too intense. They are obstacles to healthy ways of relating. It is not healthy to try to meet all of your needs through or for someone else or to try to meet someone else's needs for them. There is such a thing as "caring too much". A type of "caring" that is really more about control. Control often for the sake of avoiding one's own pain and issues. Pain and issues that when addressed can set you free from painful codependent ways of relating.

A.J. Mahari is a very effective and compassionate life coach and strategist who can help you explore the process of any personal growth and change that you may well be seeking and want in your relationships and in your life.

Working with a A.J. in her role as a life coach can help you to identify ways of creating change in your life and/or ways to cope more effectively in the process of the many "endings" that are the new beginnings in your life. New beginnings that are seeking to increase your conscious awareness to the ever-unfolding process of further awakening to your own personal insight and personal enlightenment - one step at a time.

Please Note: Any purchased life coaching session(s) is (are) non-refundable.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"Each one of us is born alone. Born to be the very unique human being that he/she is. Each one of us will die alone. In between, in the natural order of life, there are times when we must be alone due to circumstance or times when we may need to be alone to take care of ourselves and find our own way through troubled and painful seasons. Being alone is not necessarily the reason for feeling the pain of loneliness."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Loneliness - Its Promise of Transformation"