Legend


Audio Program Audio Program
Ebook Ebook
Video Video
Bundle Bundle
Life Coaching Life Coaching
E-Course E-Course

 

Testimonials


"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"I bought A.J. Mahari's ebook, on Loneliness. Wow! So much insightful and informative stuff. I had not ever really thought about there being anything positive about loneliness. You taught me so much. I have been able to make some wonderful changes in my life because your ebook helped me to learn that the place to start was with my attitude toward and thoughts about loneliness. Thanks so much A.J. and may God continue to bless all the work that you do."

-- Sue Johnson, Australia

"I just wanted to let you know, A.J., how helpful your ebooks and audio programs have been to me. Thanks for all the hard work you do and for putting yourself and your own painful experience out there as gifts to those still trying to find their own way."

-- Donald S., U.S.A.

Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Shame of Abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder

Price: $22.99

Sources of abandonment and how they produce shame are examined along with the impact of shame on relationships.

By: A.J. Mahari © June 2008
Published by PhoenixRising Publications

In the audio program, "The Shame of Abandonment in BPD" Mahari explores the reality of the impact and scope of shame that is experienced in and through abandonment in Borderline Personality Disorder.

In Part 1 of this audio program focuses on the sources of abandonment and how they produce shame, The experience and consequences of shame in BPD for borderlines and non borderlines, and The effects of the shame of abandonment for those with BPD and the effects for those who are non borderline.

In Part 2 of this audio program A.J. Mahari focuses on The Shame of Abandonment and its specific and devastating impact on relationships and the purpose that toxic relationships can and do actually promise for both those with BPD and those who are Non Borderline if you are willing to search inside of yourself.

Tracks in part 1 of this audio program include:
Track 1:
48 Minutes - The sources of abandonment and how they produce shame

Track 2:
42 Minutes - The experience and consequences of shame

Track 3:
34 Mintues - The effects of the shame of abandonment

Tracks in part 2 of this audio program include:

Track 1:
88 Minutes
- The effects of the shame of abandonment on relationships

Track 2:
58 Minutes - Codependency and enmeshment - Where Borderlines and Non Borderlines Meet

Track 3:
34 Minutes - What Borderlines & Nons need to know and understand about toxic relationship involvement

All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.


Shopping Cart Info No items in cart          Total: $0.00

Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"