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"I am in a relationship with a borderline. I was at my wits end and in so much pain. I was so confused. Then I purchased and read A.J. Mahari's 3 Ebooks for Non Borderlines and I found her amazing first-hand knowledge and insight life-changing and so emotionally freeing. I feel like I owe my emotional peace and freedom to you A.J., thanks so much for all you do and all you share to help others."

-- Mike Miller, Chicago, U.S.A.

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder

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How and why the core wound of abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder.


By: A.J. Mahari © 2007
Published by PhoenixRising Publications

In the audio program, "BPD and Abandonment" A.J. Mahari talks about how and why abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder and the reality that it is also the unresolved trauma of the core wound of abandonment that leads those with BPD to be left without a known self and to abandon the very pain that could set them free from BPD. Abandonment is the major core issue that keeps those who are diagnosed and stuck in the active throes of BPD - stuck.

Mahari describes how borderlines can begin to get in touch with this abandoned pain and why it is important to get in touch with it. Reclaiming and facing the abandoned pain of BPD - pain that is the result of having been wounded to the core by the experience and/or perception of abandonment in the first two to three years of life is the path that leads to the road to recovery.

Tracks in this audio program include:

Track 1:
Introduction to the central role of abandonment in BPD - Abandonment both causes and drives BPD.

Track 2:
The Effects of abandonment on those with BPD.

Track 3:
The Abandoned Pain of Abandonment in BPD.

Track 4:
The Borderline False Self - How and why the Core Wound of Abandonment is Central to the Recovery Process

Track 5:
The Abandoned Pain of BPD Is A Choice to Continue to Suffer and What That Means

Track 6:
The Reclamation of Abandoned Pain Is The Road to Recovery from BPD.

All Audio Programs are in mp3 format. All Ebooks are in PDF format. Audio Programs and Ebooks are available for electronic download only upon purchase.

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The collective experiences compiling in the very young infant are forming an internal representation of the world. The core wound of abandonment results in the destruction of the emerging authentic self. It destroys the very essence of the developing self. Emotional growth and development are arrested as the result of failure to master early childhood developmental phases."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD"

"Hope for change and recovery in a loved one with BPD often causes non borderlines to compulsively focus on the borderline and try to fix him or her in ways that only increase the pain, suffering, and confusion for the non borderline. When is hope really hope? When is hope false hope? I talk about the different faces and consequences of hope. Hope is often one of the biggest hooks and traps for the non borderline and I explain why."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD"

"Why is it that we allow so much pain and chaos to be a part of how we define love? What is it that we still need to learn so that we can free ourselves from the burden and the pain of investing in rescuing a borderline? What is it that you still need more awareness about? What are the lessons?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Full Circle - Lessons For Non Borderlines"