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"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

4 BPD Loved Ones Ebooks - Puzzle Mystery of Hope & Splitting and BPD Audio Program Bundle

4 BPD Loved Ones Ebooks - Puzzle Mystery of Hope & Splitting and BPD Audio Program Bundle

4 BPD Loved Ones Ebooks - Puzzle Mystery of Hope & Splitting and BPD Audio Program Bundle This bundle of ebooks and 2 audio programs includes: Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder - The Unmastered ...

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4 Ebook Bundle for Loved Ones of BPD

4 Ebook Bundle for Loved Ones of  BPD

4 Ebook Bundle for Loved Ones of BPD This bundle of ebooks includes: Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder - The Unmastered Talionic Impulse - What Loved Ones Need To Know This ebook includes 5 ...

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$75.99

Punishment and Revenge in BPD & 1 - 60 Minute Life Coaching Session with A.J. Mahari

Punishment and Revenge in BPD & 1 - 60 Minute Life Coaching Session with A.J. Mahari

Punishment and Revenge in BPD & 1 - 60 Minute Life Coaching Session with A.J. Mahari You can save $6.99 on A.J. Mahari\'s new ebook when you purchase it with a life coaching session. Loved Ones of ...

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$115.99

Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life

Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life

Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life - 19 Coaching Exercises To Help You Change Negative Thought Patterns by Life Coach, A.J. Mahari, is a 102 page Ebook chalk full of information and 19 coaching exercises to help you change negative thinking into positive thinking. This ...

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FULL CIRCLE - Lessons For BPD Loved Ones

FULL CIRCLE - Lessons For BPD Loved Ones

Full Circle Lessons For Non Borderlines A.J. Mahari was in the non-borderline role as a child with 2 parents with Borderline Personality Disorder. She shares the lessons that experience taught her. She then grew and developed and was diagnosed ...

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Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder

Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder

Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder - What Every Loved One Needs to Know © A.J. Mahari November 2009 "In this in depth ebook, A.J. Mahari masterfully explains how and why those with Borderline Personality ...

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Quest For Self Reclamation - Creating Your Success Story

Quest For Self Reclamation - Creating Your Success Story

A.J. Mahari's Coaching Guide/Ebook/Workbook - Quest For Self - Building Self Awareness and A.J. Mahari coaching you on the audio, "Quest For Self - Creating Your Own Story of Success"  This Ebook/Coaching Guide and Workbook all in one features 25 Life ...

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The Dilemma on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Dilemma on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Dilemma on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love? A.J. Mahari bats one out of the ballpark with this ebook for loved ones who have someone with BPD in their lives - non borderlines. On the subject of the ...

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The Other Side Of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Nons

The Other Side Of Borderline Personality Disorder - Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Nons

The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder Mindfulness and Radical Acceptance for Non-Borderlines This ebook, is 116 pages of insightful must read information that will help Non-Borderlines free themselves emotionally from the chaotic and painful ...

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The Power of Gratitude - Recovery, Self Improvement and Getting Unstuck - Ebook and Audio

The Power of Gratitude - Recovery, Self Improvement and Getting Unstuck - Ebook and Audio

The Power of Gratitude - Healing, Recovery, Wellness and Getting Unstuck The Power of Gratitude Nurtures Healing, Recovery, Wellness and Self Improvement Features 10 Coaching Exercises - 7 Personal Reflection Exercises, each with 3 awareness-building questions and an ...

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Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks - A 5 Volume Set

Thought Changing Affirmations Handbooks - A 5 Volume Set

Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari's 5 Volume set of Thought Changing Positive Affirmation Handbooks that are designed to give you an affirmation per day or week, as you choose, to make into a mantra to help you change various ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"The central source of negativity in BPD is what I call the core wound of abandonment. It is the abandonment wound that is the foundation of the black-and-white all-or-nothing thinking that perpetuates the borderline one-sided and pervasive negative experience in life. This negativity in those with BPD blocks them from the experience of hope. Hope is a central ingredient necessary for getting on the road to recovery."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Finding Hope From The Polarized Negativity of BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"