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"A.J.'s Ebook and Audio Program for Non Borderlines - The Dilemma on The Other Side of BPD was a life-saver for me. From both the ebook and the audio program I learned so much about BPD that I still needed to understand so that I could make sense out of the chaos and turmoil of a relationship I was in and the pain of it all. This information helped me come to terms with the reality that love wasn't really what I thought it was. Thanks so much A.J.!"

-- Cindy Mcphail, London, England

"A.J., your ebook about Verbal Abuse helped me to realize so much. I needed to know that I was placing myself in danger and that verbal abuse is not something to minimize. I also needed to know that toxic relating isn't love. Thanks so much for writing and making that ebook available."

-- Duke P., Ireland

"I totally recommend that anyone who wants to really understand BPD buy A.J. Mahari's ebooks and audio programs. Along with all her stuff on the web they are even more insightful and informative. After purchasing A.J.'s products I did some life coaching with her too. A.J. doesn't just write about BPD, she has lived it. She has lived both sides of it. She is an amazing life coach too. With A.J.'s support I am making my way through the pain and grief of having loved someone with BPD and coming to terms with the reasons for the relationship and my need to let go."

-- Rick Meyers, Scotland

A.J. Mahari on Audio Tough Love - Loved Ones of BPD Parts 1 & 2

A.J. Mahari on Audio Tough Love - Loved Ones of BPD Parts 1 & 2

A.J. Mahari's Audio (from her Video) on Tough Love and BPD For Loved Ones of those with BPD In a two hour talk given to family members and loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder, author, speaker, life coach and strategist, A.J. Mahari talks about tough ...

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Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

Each and every adult child of a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder sooner or later comes to the realization that there is a need for and has been an on-going search for closure. Whether you, yourself, also have Borderline Personality Disorder or not, the impact of ...

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Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

How Non Borderlines can break free from the BPD maze - the emotional rollercoaster of drama, chaos and conflict and why they need to. By: A.J. Mahari © March 2007 Published by Phoenix Rising Publications Mahari talks about how Non Borderlines can break free from ...

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Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?

Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?

Audio: 35 Minutes - Do you have a loved one with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Do you want to rescue your loved one with BPD? Have you tried to rescue him or her? Are you still trying? Is it possible to rescue someone with Borderline Personality Disorder? This is ...

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Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love Audio Program

Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love Audio Program

"The Dilemma On the Other Side of BPD - Overcoming Denial About Borderline Personality Disorder and Love" Audio Program © A.J. Mahari Published by PhoenixRising Publications. This audio program is 2 1/2 hours of Mahari's must hear ...

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Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Non BPD

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Non BPD

Examining Emotional Dysregulation in those with BPD. Non borderline need to understand Borderline Emotional dysregulation. A.J. Mahari © September 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications This audio program bundle is 1 hour and 30 minutes ...

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Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

"Facing The Facts on The Other Side of BPD" - For Loved Ones And Family Members of Those with BPD" - Non Borderlines - 10 Central Facts To Set You Free By: A.J. Mahari © December 2007 As only one who has been there can A.J. Mahari identifies ...

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Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines By: A.J. Mahari © 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, "Inside the Borderline Mind" A.J. Mahari, ...

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Inside the Borderline Mind - Part Two

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part Two

Lack of Object Constancy and Narcissism in BPD and how that effects the workings of the "borderline mind"- The Difference Between BPD and NPD. By: A.J. Mahari © 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications ...

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Inside The Borderline Mind Part 3 - Beyond Jargon - Deeper Understanding For Loved Ones

Inside The Borderline Mind Part 3 - Beyond Jargon - Deeper Understanding For Loved Ones

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines In the audio program, "Inside the Borderline Mind" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there can and made it back can, shares her insight and experience ...

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Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking from BPD Audio Program

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking from BPD Audio Program

Nons Unhooking Audio Program This audio program has largely the same content as the Videos available by the same name. It does, however, feature one bonus track that is not part of the available ...

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Splitting in Borderline Personality - Loved Ones

Splitting in Borderline Personality -  Loved Ones

Splitting in Borderline Personality Disorder - An Understanding for Loved Ones Loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often grapple to understand this central manifestation of BPD. In the face of the reality of the splitting that is a ...

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The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines In the audio program, "The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there ...

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The Silent Treatment - Ask The BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

The Silent Treatment - Ask The BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, answers questions that are sent to her via email. These responses to the questions of loved ones of BPD, in this category, give you the opportunity to learn from A.J.'s rich coaching experience on various aspects of what you may be experiencing with your ...

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"What is in the way - is the way. If you have Borderline Personality Disorder it is the fundamental absence of a known self that sits at the very core of your pain, anger, and your rage. It is your rage that stands between your borderline pain and suffering and your recovery. Your lack of a known and defined self is what is in your way."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Rage And BPD"

"Are you confused? Are you in pain? Do you find yourself overly-focused on the person with BPD? Are you trying to make sense out of the borderline's shifting moods or contradictory behaviour? I have been there. I know what it takes to break free on the other side of BPD. Breaking free from the BPD maze means getting back in touch and in tune with yourself."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Breaking Free From The BPD Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines"

"If you have Borderline Personality Disorder you have met your one true enemy -- yourself -- namely, your false self to be much more specific. This false self becomes the shadow self experienced by those with BPD. The more you deny the Shadow Self, the more likely it is that you will be blind to your own faults and find those faults in others. Denying the false self, the shadow self, in BPD, only perpetuates your pain and suffering."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Shadows and Echoes of Self - The False in BPD"