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"I didn't think anyone else could possibly know or understand what I was going through. I also didn't think anyone could be so compassionate and patient with me as A.J. Mahari was as my life coach. She gave me support, information, and tools. Tools that have enabled me to truly find myself and to set and achieve my goals. Thanks so much for everything A.J.! -- Mandy"

-- M., Ontario, Canada

"I would highly recommend A.J. Mahari as life coach especially for those who are non borderline. I worked with A.J. over the course of 6 months as I struggled to end my relationship with my BPD girl friend. A.J. was compassionate, supportive, and so patient with me. I don't think I'd be where I am today without A.J.'s support."

-- Marty Green, Ontario, Canada

"I have BPD and I had absolutely no hope for myself until I listened A.J. Mahari's Audio, Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD. This and a few other audios I listened to taught me so much. I now have hope. I now understand how I have kept myself trapped in my own borderline chaos as a way of not feeling my pain. I can now change this. I highly recommend others with BPD listen to A.J.'s Audios for Borderlines."

-- Lindy Sinclair, U.S.A.

ADHD - What Every Parent Needs To Know

ADHD - What Every Parent Needs To Know

Has Your Child Been Diagnosed With ADHD? Is Coping With Your Child's Behavior Wearing You Out? Are You Tired of Searching For Answers? Want to know more? Need to know more? This audio features an in depth interview with ADHD expert, Deena Kotlewski, MA, LCPC. She ...

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$14.99

Adult Child of Borderline Mother - Search for Closure

Each and every adult child of a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder sooner or later comes to the realization that there is a need for and has been an on-going search for closure. Whether you, yourself, also have Borderline Personality Disorder or not, the impact of ...

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$20.99

Anxiety and Depression Strategies Coping Tool Kit

Anxiety and Depression Strategies Coping Tool Kit

Depression and Anxiety Tool Kit and A.J's Life Coaching Guide To Understanding and Effective Coping  - Audio, 2 Ebooks, and Checklist and ...

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$45.99

Attract The Life Your Desire - Going from Where You are To Where You Want To Be

Attract The Life Your Desire - Going from Where You are To Where You Want To Be

Attract The Life Your Desire - Going from Where You are To Where You Want To Be   This audio program by Life Coach, BPD and Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari is very much geared to any person ...

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$29.99

Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze - Recovery For Non Borderlines

How Non Borderlines can break free from the BPD maze - the emotional rollercoaster of drama, chaos and conflict and why they need to. By: A.J. Mahari © March 2007 Published by Phoenix Rising Publications Mahari talks about how ...

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$35.99

Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?

Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?

Audio: 35 Minutes - Do you have a loved one with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Do you want to rescue your loved one with BPD? Have you tried to rescue him or her? Are you still trying? Is it possible to rescue someone with Borderline Personality ...

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$25.99

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Non BPD

Emotional Dysregulation in Borderline Personality Disorder - Non BPD

Examining Emotional Dysregulation in those with BPD. Non borderline need to understand Borderline Emotional dysregulation. A.J. Mahari © September 2007 Published by PhoenixRising Publications This audio program bundle is 1 hour and 30 ...

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$18.99

Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder

"Facing The Facts on The Other Side of BPD" - For Loved Ones And Family Members of Those with BPD" - Non Borderlines - 10 Central Facts To Set You Free By: A.J. Mahari © December 2007 As only one who has been there can A.J. Mahari ...

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$22.99

How To Know If a Loved One Has BPD

Life Coach, BPD (and Loved Ones) Coach and Peer-Therapist, A.J .Mahari, talks about how you can answer the nagging questions about whether or not you or a loved one of yours may have Borderline Personality in this 66 minute audio. Mahari talks about her own ...

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$18.99

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part One

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines By: A.J. Mahari © 2008 Published by PhoenixRising Publications In the audio program, ...

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$18.99

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part Two

Inside the Borderline Mind - Part Two

Lack of Object Constancy and Narcissism in BPD and how that effects the workings of the "borderline mind"- The Difference Between BPD and NPD. By: A.J. Mahari © 2008 Published by ...

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$18.99

Inside The Borderline Mind Part 3 - Beyond Jargon - Deeper Understanding For Loved Ones

Inside The Borderline Mind Part 3 - Beyond Jargon - Deeper Understanding For Loved Ones

Insight into and Understanding about the "borderline mind" in those with Borderline Personality Disorder For Non Borderlines In the audio program, "Inside the Borderline Mind" A.J. Mahari, as only one who has been there can and made it back can, shares her insight and experience ...

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$18.99

Loved Ones Getting The Silent Treatment - Ask The BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

Loved Ones Getting The Silent Treatment - Ask The BPD Coach A.J. Mahari

A question is asked by a husband of a woman (a loved one) who has Borderline Personality Disorder about how to understand and cope with getting the silent treatment. Many clients that I coach who are loved ones of someone with BPD struggle with this experience. There are so many ...

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$14.99

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking from BPD Audio Program

Loved Ones of BPD - Unhooking from BPD Audio Program

Nons Unhooking Audio Program This audio program has largely the same content as the Videos available by the same name. It does, however, feature one bonus track that is not part of the ...

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$14.99

Moving from Focusing on The Person With BPD to Your Own Recovery and Wellness

Moving from Focusing on The Person With BPD to Your Own Recovery and Wellness

Moving from Focusing on The Person With BPD to Your Own Recovery and Wellness   The road to recovery when you have or have had someone in your life with Borderline Personality Disorder requires a wide variety and wide ...

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$29.99

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Quotes From A.J. Mahari


"At the heart of the core wound of abandonment in BPD and its impact are many factors. Central among these factors however is the pain of loss. The pain of abandonment. The loss of authentic self."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "Understanding BPD - The Lost Self - The Impact of the Core Wound of Abandonment"

"The central source of negativity in BPD is what I call the core wound of abandonment. It is the abandonment wound that is the foundation of the black-and-white all-or-nothing thinking that perpetuates the borderline one-sided and pervasive negative experience in life. This negativity in those with BPD blocks them from the experience of hope. Hope is a central ingredient necessary for getting on the road to recovery."

-- A.J. Mahari in her Audio Program, "Finding Hope From The Polarized Negativity of BPD"

"The central dilemma of the non borderline presents you with a quandary that in and through its predicament reveals a puzzle that you then feel compelled to solve. The what-to-do conundrum is unearthed. Your pain, the pain of loving someone with BPD compels you to want to help and to want to fix the problem to restore a sense of connectedness that continues to be puzzling, painful, and illusive. Where is love in all of this?"

-- A.J. Mahari in her Ebook, "The Dilemma on the Other Side of BPD" - Borderline Love?